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Nov. 2004
Which comes first:
Communion or confession?
Church law dictates sacrament of penance
should be prior to Eucharist
Joan King
Special to Parenting

YOUTHS WAIT IN LINE — Youths from the Archdiocese of Milwaukee wait in line to participate in the sacrament of penance during the fourth annual St. John Bosco Youth Rally at Holy Hill in Hubertus, Oct. 2. In Catholic theology, confession refers to the act of admitting personal sin to a priest and receiving sacramental pardon upon expressing contrition for it. (Catholic Herald photo by Sam Lucero)

Which comes first? First reconciliation or first Communion? In many parishes of the Archdiocese of Milwaukee, the sacramental emphasis for the past 30 years or so was placed on the Eucharist being taught and celebrated before the sacrament of penance.

After Vatican II, experiments to determine the place of reconciliation were encouraged. Various legitimate adaptations of the liturgy were outlined in the document “Veritatis Legitimae,” according to Dean Daniels, director of the Office for Prayer and Worship for the Milwaukee Archdiocese.

And so, many parishes worldwide developed programs changing the sacramental timeline. Communion was studied and received in second grade and the more complicated issue of first penance was delayed a couple of years, usually to fourth or fifth grade, when studies at the time showed children better assimilated the concept of moral values and right and wrong behavior.

Archbishop stresses compliance with canon law, church guidelines
In informing priests of the archdiocese of the emphasis placed on the order of the sacraments of Penance and Eucharist, Archbishop Timothy M. Dolan cited canon law, the catechism, and the liturgical guidelines of the church universal.

To explain these briefly, #914 of canon law states that “it is primarily the duty of parents and those who take the place of parents, as well as the duty of pastors, to take care that children who have reached the age of reason are prepared properly, and after they have made sacramental confession, are refreshed with this divine food as soon as possible.”

Paragraph 1457 in the Catechism directs “after having attained the age of discretion, each of the faithful is bound by an obligation faithfully to confess serious sins at least once a year.”

Liturgical guidelines state “As children reach the age of reason, generally around the age of 7, the church extends to them an invitation to celebrate the sacrament of reconciliation. Initiated into the Christian community at baptism, the children are now called to prepare for the sacrament of God’s loving mercy.”
But times are changing. Daniels noted over the last few years, the Vatican has directed that everyone who comes to church should have the sacrament of penance available, to be able to approach the table ready to celebrate the Eucharist.

In his newsletter to priests at the end of June, Archbishop Timothy M. Dolan cited the clear precept of the church that catechesis for and celebration of the sacrament of reconciliation precede the reception of first holy Communion … and that “every parish now be obedient to the universal norm of the church.” (See related sidebar.)

Parishes scramble to comply

Coming after many religious education directors had made preparations for this fall’s programs, the directive caused a scramble to provide transition programs in both large and small parishes. Daniels and Kathie Amidei, director of the archdiocese’s Lifelong Faith Formation Office estimated about 20 percent of parishes were in conformity prior to this summer.

In addressing the directive, larger parishes dealt with a numbers crunch, but many of these parishes had full time paid staff to work on changes. In smaller parishes with volunteer staff, the strain involved many extra hours to adjust their programs, even with guidelines from the Office of Prayer and Worship offering a couple of years to phase in the plan.

Mike Crain, adult and family director at Holy Apostles Parish, New Berlin, wrote in a September parish bulletin, “Over this year and the next, we will be transitioning to preparing for reconciliation in second grade. To make that transition, we will be preparing (200) children in grades three and four this year. The children who are registered for first and second grades this school year will prepare for the sacrament next year in the fall. This year’s second grade class will be the last to receive their first reconciliation after their first Communion.”

In a follow up e-mail, Crain noted preparation and adjustments required a complete reworking of what they were doing. While the basic information is taught in regular religious education and day-school catechetical programs, the parish uses a supplemental program in anticipation of the sacramental celebrations.

“Due to the difference in the developmental levels of fourth and second graders we needed to make changes that will better fit the comprehension level of the younger students,” wrote Crain. Each family received a book for the student to complete with the parents’ supervision and one for the parents to follow as they assist their child. The children will be gathered for large group retreat days prior to their first celebration of the sacrament. Crain noted the program seeks to assist, but not replace, parents as the primary religious educators of their children. Because it is primarily done at home, outside the regular catechetical programs, it has not had a direct impact on the classroom teachers.

In Greendale, program taught as a community

The past program at St. Alphonsus, Greendale, prepared children for first confession in the fourth grade through most of the ’80s. In the last 15 years, confession has been studied in fifth grade. It’s always been a parish program, taught as a community.

What is the
sacrament of penance?
It’s also called confession or more recently the Rite of Reconciliation. In Catholic theology, confession refers to the act of admitting personal sin to a priest and receiving sacramental absolution upon expressing contrition for it.

By church law (Fourth Lateran Council, 1215), Catholics are required to go to confession annually, so that they might fulfill their Easter duty. All mortal sins that Catholics are aware of must be confessed. The Council of Trent (1545-63) decreed that Catholics must confess their sins according to the kind and number. Regarding the confession of children, Pope St. Pius X (1903-14) declared that the young may be admitted to the sacrament when they have reached the age of reason, determined to be at or about the seventh year. Furthermore, it is normative that children celebrate their first Confession before receiving their first holy Communion (Quam Singulari, 1910).

— from “Our Sunday Visitor’s Catholic Enyclopedia,” 1991, edited by Fr. Peter M.J. Stravinskas, published by Our Sunday Visitor Publishing Division, Huntington, Ind.
“We started talking to parents (about a transition),” commented Kathleen Monacelli, child minister. Parish officials decided to transition all students this fall, encompassing almost 500 children in second through fifth grades, in order for families with more than one child in those grades to attend only one time. Each session of four classes has been limited to 100 families, according to Monacelli, which has meant about 130 to 140 kids at a time, and with the parents, a total near 300 per session. All should be ready by Christmas.

“With four grades, we couldn’t use a textbook. We gave a keepsake sacrament book they could go through together. The people are open to the fact that this is a transition year. It has been a positive challenge,” said Monacelli. “I really did love the fifth grade level, absolutely loved teaching older kids. They are at a point where they are ready for understanding peer pressure and can see how everything is interconnected. The future challenge is to keep on teaching kids with the focus on reconciliation and keeping them coming to the sacrament.”

Programs being adapted for younger students

Fr. Phil Reifenberg, pastor of Nativity of the Lord Parish, Cudahy, wrote in a recent parish bulletin, “Since like many parishes, we had for several years observed a discipline of celebrating first Communion in the second grade while delaying reception of first reconciliation until the fourth grade (except in the day school which had continued to celebrate both sacraments in second grade) this means that we will be taking three grade levels in our religious education program — second, third and fourth — through first reconciliation next spring.”

Nativity of the Lord is one of six churches in a cluster who have one day school, St. Thomas Aquinas Academy. The sacraments are taught as part of the curriculum in the day school but preparation for first Communion and first penance is done in family-based programs in each parish.

St. Veronica, the largest of the cluster’s parishes will prepare the third and fourth grades this year and next year will prepare the second and third grades for the sacrament, according to director of religious education Karen Bushman. The present program has four group sessions with basic materials by archdiocesan speaker Jennifer Christ and a focus on moral decision making. The program will be adapted for the younger students next year.

Also in this cluster, Immaculate Conception and Sacred Heart of Jesus parishes will make a similar transition for all students second grade and up. St. Paul has always had both sacraments in second grade.

Maureen Mitchell, director of religious education at St. Gabriel Parish, Hubertus, said the parish started several years ago by teaching penance to second and fourth and then second and third grades. “Last year and this year it is only second grade with 38 children. We decided it’s going to happen, so let’s get on board. It’s a big load for the second grade teachers to do this, but they’re doing it. We want to do it well,” said Mitchell.

St. Peter Parish, Slinger, returned to first confession before first Communion four years ago. Currently, there are 14 second graders in their religious education program and 35 in the school.

“The first year, it was a little difficult doing both sacraments in one year but we managed,” according to St. Peter youth minister and director of religious education Jennifer Funk. “That first year we prepared 130 children in second, third and fourth grade. The parents presented no difficulty. The parish has more traditional Catholics and there was probably more opposition going to fourth grade some years ago.

“The sad part about it is, because they have both sacraments in second grade, some parents will choose to stop sending their children but that is a small percentage.”

Parents need continuing catechesis, too

Karin Frederickson, religious education coordinator for St. Clare Parish, North Lake and St. John Parish, Monches commented, “This is our fourth year of celebrating (first confession) in second grade as the Holy Father has requested. The issue we have when other parishes don’t follow directives is then, when people move out of the parish to another parish like ours, they are missing the sacrament.”

Along with this new plan for the sacraments, guidelines for Catholic schools and parish religious education programs aim to ensure that children in the archdiocese are learning the same content at every level. Those forming the curriculum are looking at the structure of the catechism to involve all different aspects that are covered in that document.

In Lifelong Faith Formation, the program and catechesis is family centered, attempting to assist in the parent’s responsibility to be the prime source for their children’s religious education. It’s not enough to just drop the kids off for an hour after school; the focus now is on parent involvement and, through that, continuing catechesis for parents as well.

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