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March 2004
Counting blessings while counting laps
Patricia Lorenz
Special to Parenting
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In 2002, my dad, brother, sister and I bought a small condo in Florida. Being faint-of-pocketbook, my quarter-share took most of my retirement money, but I live by the principle that one should follow her dreams while she’s still awake.

Florida has captured my heart. No matter how many times I make the trip, I am thrilled to arrive in sun, sand, sea, surf and swimming pool country. The large condo pool is next to the Intercostal waterway, one street away from the Gulf of Mexico. Every day I swim. Sometimes I swim two or three times a day. I’m often in the water for an hour-and-a-half or two hours at a time, swimming leisurely laps. My goal is 30 lengths or 15 laps per session. Sometimes I double that.

The problem with swimming laps is keeping track. My mind wanders. Oh, look, there’s a dolphin jumping out of the Intercostal! Or three or four condo friends jump in the pool to cool off and we gab each time I reach the shallow end. Or perhaps a pelican, seagull, heron or egret swoops by to my delight when I’m doing the backstroke and I lose track of my lap count.

The solution came one day when I was feeling especially joyful about being in that pool under a robin egg blue sky on a glorious 80-degree Florida day. I started thanking God for all my blessings that had significance to the number of lap I was on.

ONE
: One God who gave me one life. Side stroke, breaststroke, crawl. I praise God for granting me so many blessings. Me, a single parent who marches through life as one woman, not as a couple. Thank you, Lord, for giving me life.

TWO: Two homes. Thanks, Lord, that my brother, sister, their families, my folks and I can make a joint-owner vacation condo work so happily for all of us. Two homes, one up north, one down south. It doesn’t get any better than that, Lord.

THREE: Three part-time freelance jobs, instead of one monumental stressful one. I write, I speak, I paint jars. Lots of freedom. Breast stroke, frog kick. Thank you, Lord, for giving me the ability to do this work and to love my three jobs so much.

FOUR: Four children, two daughters, two sons. I think about Jeanne’s recent marriage and move to California; Julia’s struggles as a single parent; Michael’s busy life with the university band and his growing family; and Andrew’s determination to finish college while working his dream job for ESPN sports.

FIVE: One day in the pool I recalled the five pair of sandals in my condo closet. Wow, Lord, thank you for the variety of footwear you have blessed me with. The next day as I did the side stroke up the pool and down, I praised God for a tasty five-bean salad recipe I made and for the five friends who ate it.

SIX: Six grandchildren. Three blondes, three redheads. Hailey, Casey, Riley, Hannah, Zachary and Chloe. I love lap number six best. Imagine the fun of thinking about the antics of six little people who are tied so tightly to your heartstrings that sometimes you think you’ll just burst from happiness.

SEVEN: The seven seas. I recall all the wonderful places I’ve swam. Atlantic Ocean, Pacific Ocean, the aqua blue Caribbean, Gulf of Mexico, the warm waters off Kauai, Oahu, and the big island of Hawaii. Thank you for water, Lord.

EIGHT: One time when I was on lap number eight I started thinking about “figure eights” in ice-skating. I hadn’t ice-skated for years and never could do a figure eight, but I still count my blessings for all the fun winter sports I enjoyed in my youth up north.

NINE: “Nine lives,” the number cats have. Often when I’m in Florida I get to take care of my friend’s cats, Bubba and Boomer. I’m always happy when I get cat duty so the “boys” can keep me company. Lord, give Bubba and Boomer at least nine lives.

TEN: This is the place in my lap swimming where I examine my conscience. The Ten Commandments come in handy for this one. I run through them all trying to decide if I’ve blown it and whether or not I need to apologize to anyone for anything.

Every day I get out of that pool a new person … blessings counted, prayers said, conscience examined, life evaluated, attitude adjusted, and exercise completed. Jump in. The water’s perfect.

(Lorenz shares her experiences in books, articles, stories, essays, devotionals and columns all over the country. E-mail her at <patricialorenz@juno.com>.)

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