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Something's keeping us up at night.
A recent national survey revealed nearly two-thirds
of adult Americans are getting less than the minimum
sleep requirement for good health. And what do physicians
generally set as the minimum? Eight hours. The minimum.
Millions of us are awake more than ever before and enjoying
it less. It's costing us. So what's compelling us and
our children to disregard medical advice and shave off
more and more from that precious eight hour minimum?
Let's see if we can round up some of the usual suspects.
Health issues
There are people who want to sleep but can't. Colds
and more serious health problems, such as an enlarged
prostate, act as unwanted alarm clocks to catapult people
out of bed and send them groping for the Kleenex box
or bathroom.
Then there are those who can sleep but choose not to.
Sleep deprivation results in impaired concentration
and performance at work or school, irritability, and
slower response time (expressway anyone?). Poor sleep
habits for children can lead to health problems for
adults, including obesity and heart and respiratory
illness.
Anxiety
When we lie down in the quiet of the night, that monster
in the closet peeks out. He silently, but persistently,
prods us with nagging bits of business we didn't attend
to. He nags us to look at the clock to fret at another
hour lost, listening to him. Or he may let us fall asleep
quickly, only to jab us awake at 2:30 a.m. with an onslaught
of nail-biting fear.
Suddenly our mind is like a carbine, spinning furiously
with all sorts of things that could go wrong tomorrow.
The monster Anxiety pulls out the stops to try to trick
us into believing we are helpless to do anything about
the tidal wave of catastrophes that he assures us are
waiting for us.
One technique for fighting this monster is to get an
anxiety notebook. Draw a line down the center of each
page. On the left side write down all of Anxiety's threats.
On the right side record your plan for dealing with
each of them. Just writing down your plan is sometimes
enough to deflate Anxiety, whose bark is usually worse
than his bite.
Depression
Anxiety's loyal ally is Depression. After Anxiety's
been working on you a while, he calls in Depression
to try to convince you you're weak and useless, otherwise
you wouldn't be putting up with Anxiety. Depression
would like you to do a nightly review of all of your
sins, shortcomings, and mistakes that he says make you
a guilty, despicable, unlikable wretch.
Sleep disturbance is actually a valuable warning sign.
It tries to get our attention to solve another underlying
problem. Think of it as a barometer, giving us a reading
on our emotional and physical health. When we make a
plan to address the physical pain, anxiety, or depression,
our friend Sleep may return.
Electricity
Never in the history of the world have we been able
to so effectively prolong daylight. Our computers, CD
players, video games, VCRs, DVD players, and big-screen
TVs leave us more entertained and more sleep-deprived
than previous generations.
Barking dogs
You owners know who you are. Just bring them inside,
OK?
American Asceticism
Ascetics are those who renounce worldly pleasure for
virtue's sake. While other cultures take a siesta in
the afternoon to recharge themselves, Americans believe
a nap is self-indulgent. See what happens if you confess
to a group of friends that you routinely get eight-and-a-half
hours sleep every night and you've never felt better
in your life.
I predict they will congratulate you, but then go on
to tell you how they have so many things on their plates
they could not possibly do the same. With their litany
of activities, they will try to convince you of how
busy (i.e. indispensable) they are.
If you get the reputation as a slacker, enjoy it. Cheerfully
suggest that they think of something else to give up
for Lent this year. Wouldn't you rather be around well-rested
and cheerful people than "virtuous," exhausted
and irritable ones?
Sleep is not something to give up, sacrifice, or be
ashamed of needing. It is a vital, dynamic force with
the power to heal and re-energize our weary minds and
bodies. It is basic to any physical, emotional, and
spiritual health regimen.
Samuel Taylor Coleridge wrote a hymn to sleep in his
mysterious poem, "The Rime of the Ancient Mariner."
"Oh sleep! it is a gentle thing
Beloved from pole to pole!
To Mary Queen the praise be given!
She sent the gentle sleep from Heaven
That slid into my soul."
Join the old sailor and take some rest for your voyage,
too.
(Pankratz is a Catholic Charities marriage and family
therapist at the Milwaukee regional office.) |