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Home BaseNo uniformity in the uniformsYet, school dress policies reflect fact that students' clothes |
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| NEW UNIFORMS -- Freshmen Kelly O'Boyle, wearing skirt, and Melissa Blake model a couple of the uniform styles that abide by Divine Savior Holy Angels High School's new dress code. (Photo by Sam Lucero) | |
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The days of uniform uniformity at Catholic high and elementary schools are long gone, leaving school administrators, parents and students with daily choices and challenges.
With first-day school bells ringing for most this month, administrators used letters, handbooks, phone calls, parent meetings and Web sites to get the word out on uniform and dress codes, including changes, updates and enforcement policies. Parents, meanwhile, learned what's old and new in uniform wear and dress policies and stocked up on new and used apparel.
Although uniform and dress policies are secondary to the faith and educational goals of the schools, they are an important and visible component of school life, according to school principals and administrators interviewed by the Catholic Herald. Further, uniforms and dress codes play an important role in supporting each institution's educational approach, as well as in student growth and development, they said.
Among the most dramatic changes in school attire for the coming year are the new uniforms for the young women at Divine Savior Holy Angels High School, Milwaukee. The school, already unique among Milwaukee high schools with its uniform requirements, significantly decreased uniform options in its new policy. DSHA now requires all uniform clothing be purchased at The Uniform Store, Milwaukee.
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| OLD POLICY -- Dressed in clothing that until this year was acceptable attire for students at Divine Savior Holy Angels High School are junior Morgan Blake, wearing pants, and senior Erin O'Boyle. (Photo by Sam Lucero) | |
"Our rationale had been that more choices would make for more compliance," said Sister of the Divine Savior Virginia Honish, DSHA principal for 11 years. Instead, over the years, the expanding options, including more casual clothing and spiritwear with DSHA logos, led to more variety, and broader interpretations of uniform policies.
Simply put, "the girls became more sloppy in their appearance," said Honish.
DSHA's new policy, disclosed last spring, distinguishes between clothing for school or work, and for sports and social activities; keeps clothing costs reasonable; and downplays clothes competition -- the latter two goals common to most school uniform and dress codes. Changes include a uniform skirt required on certain days, no spiritwear, no flip-flops, and only khaki pants or shorts.
The new policy and phased-in approach met with some negative feedback from parents and students, even though parents and faculty were involved in its development, according to Honish. Student suggestions were considered and some revisions made, she said, adding, "It was unusual for parents to respond so negatively and not for the students to do so."
Perhaps on the flip side of DSHA's stricter uniform approach is Milwaukee's Pius XI High School. During the 1970s -- when girls were in uniforms and boys were not -- the school "changed everything" about its approach, "turning the focus to learning, and elevating students to a level of partnership in that with us," said Rick Pendergast. From that point on, Pius has issued a "set of guidelines, but not overly restrictive rules" -- in particular, the "neat, clean and appropriate for the school environment" rule which "we are always talking about," he said.
Variety, within the guidelines, is appreciated and encouraged, according to Pendergast. As the school's dress code states: "Because Pius recognizes the importance of the individual, it balances the student's need for self-expression with the need to understand the link between appearance, attitude and behavior."
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Pendergast said the policy is updated every spring. Changes for 2001-02 included a prohibition on flight pants, though blue jeans were allowed; for 2002-03 shorts will be allowed year-round.
"We think (the policy) is right for today, and still a handful of parents and kids would say it's not. Some elementary school parents say we look like a public school -- we don't," said Pendergast. "Dress code simply is not a battle we pick."
Kathleen A. Cepelka, principal at Catholic Memorial High School, Waukesha, said she labored over the wording of the letter sent to all parents last year, and parents of incoming freshmen in July 2002, particularly the "essence of the philosophy," which she said is, "what one wears is less important than why one wears it." The letter also calls on parental assistance and support in enforcement, especially in policy areas "based on the principles of modesty and self-respect."
"I want students to think of the message they are sending by what they wear," said Cepelka. "Our role is one of guardians and guides. We are here to set good examples of behavior and dress, and to challenge students as well. We're here to help, and the guidelines are meant to help students select attire for school that is appropriate, and this is cultural, but also counter-cultural as well."
Dominican High School's dress code philosophy and frequent updates appear to parallel the approach at Pius XI and Catholic Memorial. In recent years, the Milwaukee high school ruled out back packs because they became too "overstuffed and heavy" for students, and also because they could conceal dangerous items, a possibility realized by many administrators following the incidents at Colorado's Columbine High, according to Jim Piatt, principal. T-shirts are also forbidden as their messages "detract from the purpose of a Catholic high school -- prayer and study," he said.
The big change this fall? No more jeans at Dominican. "Over the years, jeans have been getting looser and lower for boys, and lower and tighter for girls. As a school administrator in a Catholic school, I don't ever want to know what brand of underwear a kid is wearing, or if they are boxers, or thongs. There is something awfully inappropriate about that," said Piatt.
Like Dominican, Catholic Central High School in Burlington has seen an increase in visible skin and undergarments, said Joannie Kresken, admissions director. Thus, this year's dress code update stipulates:
no skin may be showing at the midriff, no cleavage and no visible underwear at any time
no pajama-style pants
shorts and skirts may be no shorter than four inches above the knee.
And for dress-up days, girls must wear dresses, skirts or dress pants, while boys must wear dress pants, and a collared shirt or sweater. On such days, denim or cargo pants aren't allowed at the institution
Teachers and administrators are the primary enforcers of uniform and dress codes at all schools contacted. At Catholic Central, students are sent to the vice principal's office, and remain there if in violation of the code until a change of clothes is brought by a parent of family member, according to Kresken.
Students not in compliance with Catholic Memorial's dress code have last year's senior class to thank for one option in the "inventory of appropriate dress" in school offices, said Cepelka. The seniors bought and bequeathed a supply of Catholic Memorial sweatshirts, so students caught without "clean, neat, appropriate and modest clothing" stipulated in the policy can -- at least temporarily -- sport school spirit.