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May
5 , 2005
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A
polished approach to ministry
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Nail
ministry to homeless clips stereotypes
one fingernail at a time |
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NICE nails —
Sherman Winslow shows off his newly manicured
nails at Repairers of the Breach, a daytime
shelter for homeless people in Milwaukee.
Thanks to students at two Milwaukee Catholic
colleges, men and women are able to get
free nail treatments once each month.
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Three years ago,
two Franciscan Sisters wanted to find an outreach
project for college students in their campus ministry
programs. With the assistance of Repairers of
the Breach, a daytime homeless shelter in Milwaukee,
they nailed down a unique project.
Each
month, students from Cardinal Stritch University
and Mount Mary College offer nail grooming to
homeless men and women who visit Repairers of
the Breach. While having fingernails trimmed and
polished sounds like frills reserved for movie
stars, the two sisters who started the nail ministry
see it as an important service on many levels.
“The most important thing for our students
is to see others as an extension, a reflection
of the divine,” said Sister of St. Francis
of Assisi Stella DeVenuta, director of campus
ministry at Mount Mary College. “I really
feel that it gives students the opportunity to
see the face of Christ in other people that they
wouldn’t necessarily come into contact with
on a one-to-one basis. It makes a big difference
when you’re looking in their faces, holding
their hands and doing their nails.”
“Students have thoroughly enjoyed being
down here,” said Sr. Adele Thibaudeau, campus
ministry director at Cardinal Stritch and member
of the same religious order. “They enjoy
these people so much, sharing conversation and
sharing a meal. Sometimes we talk about the values
of St. Francis and ask what he would be doing.
We figure he’d be down here with us fixing
nails.”
Putting Catholic
social teaching into action
For those on the receiving end, well manicured
nails are a welcome service, especially when trying
to find jobs. However, MacCanon Brown, the shelter’s
executive director, said the real benefit of this
ministry is putting Catholic social teaching into
action.
“This is like a crash course (in Catholic
social teaching) without the textbook,”
said Brown. “The time that the students
are here in their nail ministry sessions are abundant
with solidarity. You can talk about solidarity.
You can read about solidarity, but this is really
happening.
“For students to be in this, it helps them
shape their world view so accurately with Catholic
social teaching,” added Brown, “because
they cannot help but have the perspective of the
compassion, justice and unity of Catholic social
teaching.”
Repairers of the Breach operates out of a three-story
brick building on the corner of Vliet and North
14th streets. In addition to giving homeless men
and women a place to relax and enjoy a snack or
coffee, the shelter offers a literacy program,
worship services, employment assistance and alcohol
and drug recovery programs. Free clothing and
shoes are also available to the needy.
Students arrive at the shelter carrying their
supplies and bags of sandwiches prepared for shelter
guests. A table in the main lobby serves as home
base for the nail groomers, and a sign-up sheet
is provided for people interested in the service.
Stereotypes
quickly shattered
For some of the students, it’s the first
time they’ve spoken to homeless people,
and according to the campus ministers, many stereotypes
are quickly shattered.
“I’ve heard students say things like,
‘I didn’t know that we had so many
people in our city who were homeless,’ or
‘I was surprised how many of those people
were educated,’” said Sr. DeVenuta.
“It allows them to see ... through someone
else’s eyes, through someone else’s
hands.”
Students do not give out their last names, said
Sr. DeVenuta, “but that doesn’t mean
you can’t engage in conversation with them.
We try to make human connections without being
evasive or judgmental.”
“The community here is so wonderful,”
said Sr. Thibaudeau. “They pray, they are
respectful, and so I think it’s a marvelous
way for (students) to begin to meet people in
a supervised atmosphere. We always talk on the
way back about what they saw and what they felt,
and what this meant to them. They are always so
positive. They wish everybody at the university
had this opportunity at least once.”
Maame Dampare, a student at Mount Mary College
from Ghana, is a return visitor to Repairers of
the Breach. “When Sr. Stella told me about
this, I thought it would be very nice, very rewarding,”
she said. “I was intrigued.”
Homelessness is not a problem in her native Ghana,
said Dampare, because people in need receive help
from families. “I didn’t understand
why people could be homeless,” she said.
“In my country there is a lot more support
for people.”
On her first visit to the shelter, Dampare said
she was overcome with emotion. “I cried
and cried because these people are just like me,”
she said. “I thought homeless people were
like murderers.”
Real empathy
for homeless
When Lucille Duncan, a nursing student at Mount
Mary College, found out about the nail ministry
program, she jumped at the opportunity to help.
“I always wanted to help the homeless because
I was once homeless myself,” she said, while
filing the nails of a shelter visitor. “I
have a heart and a passion for them. Whatever
I can do, nails or feeding them, I’ll do.”
Duncan said she is living proof that society’s
perceptions of people who are homeless are inaccurate.
“We all have certain problems,” she
said. “But there is a misconception that
(the homeless) are lazy. That’s not true.
Only in very rare cases.”
Duncan has been studying nursing at Mount Mary
for three years. She’s hoping to graduate
with a bachelor’s degree in 2006, specializing
in oncology nursing.
For rural students,
a new experience
Many of the students at Cardinal Stritch and Mount
Mary are from rural areas and have never seen
homeless people until participating in the nail
ministry, said Sr. Thibaudeau. “Often they
are from rural northern Wisconsin, on dairy farms,
and this is really an introduction to them to
our city and to the needy people in our city.”
Laura Eads, 19, a freshman at Cardinal Stritch,
fits this description.
“I’m from a small town in Iowa and
so there’s not really any shelters,”
she said. “Coming to Milwaukee, it made
me realize how many people actually are homeless.”
Eads said her impression of homeless people has
changed since visiting Repairers of the Breach.
“I figured everyone would be pushing around
shopping carts. Just by looking at people you
can’t tell that they’re homeless,”
she said, gesturing to people around the shelter’s
lobby. “They’re very friendly and
always very thankful.”
Shelter guests
thankful for service
Among those getting nails groomed recently was
Vivian Williams. She said the concern students
show toward people who are homeless means a lot.
“Just when you think no one cares and no
one’s thinking about you, there is a sun
behind the clouds and (students) were the sun.”
Williams said she lost her job and her home about
two months ago. “Because of the things I’m
going through right now, I have a very low self
esteem. Once the girls came in to donate their
time, after they left, the rest of the day was
swell.”
Sherman Winslow, a volunteer at the shelter, is
also grateful that others show compassion to people
who are homeless.
“It was nice for them to think about homeless
people,” he said. “To come down here
and take time out and do something for the homeless,
everyone here is grateful for that.”
Winslow also gave the nail groomers a thumbs-up
for their work.
“These young ladies did an excellent job,”
he said. “I give them 100 percent. They
smoothed them out, evened them out. I really appreciate
that.”
Making her second visit to Repairers of the Breach,
Akosua Prempeh, a freshman at Cardinal Stritch,
said she’s learned a valuable lesson about
judging people.
“It’s not always that everybody who’s
homeless is on the wrong path,” she said.
“It’s very good people who are just
facing a hard time in their life. People are just
probably facing a rough spot in their life and
hopefully, I just pray they get over it.” |
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