Welcoming the newcomer
By Bishop Richard J. Sklba
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Bishop Richard J. Sklba
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Paging through the Acts of the Apostles we learn that, after the astonishing events of Pentecost, the first members of the Church were very busy welcoming newcomers to faith in the Lord Jesus. Sometimes as
individuals and at other times in large groups, these converts to The Way (as the Christian movement was first named) found those early Christians united, joyous, and generous. "Make disciples of all nations," the Risen Lord commanded. Those first decades of our history set the standard for all subsequent generations and ages.
We bring that initial mandate of faith to our current open-armed welcome of Archbishop Dolan as he now prepares to take up his pastoral responsibilities in our midst.
We are delighted with our first experience of his engaging and energetic
sense of faith and fraternity. Mindful of the loneliness which can mark
any initial entrance into a new community, it might be helpful to recall
the many different types of welcoming we do throughout the course of
life. Those many other situations could give some hints to make sure we
do this one really well.
Undoubtedly, every one of us at one time or other has welcomed new
members into our respective families. It may have been a newborn baby.
No matter how serene or fretful, they seem to engage our affections
wholeheartedly, and their utter dependence on every adult makes them all
the more precious in a family ... well, most of the time! Adults are
also welcomed into a family, either through marriage or through bonds of
special friendship. That may be a bit more reciprocal, but the reality
of welcome still shines forth, or at least it should if we live the
courtesy and charity we profess.
Then there are neighbors who move into the area from other parts of the
world, near or far. New co-workers also show up on occasion, and
introduce us to names and customs and language different from our own.
These folks bring to the block or the next workspace their quaint
accents at times, and their exotic cooking, as well as habits not our
own.
Over the decades one immigrant group after another has also moved into
our country and our space, each making its own contribution to the rich
patchwork of life we call home. Every one of them has enriched our
sense of the human spirit. Like little children on a playground,
sometimes we have been very kind and courteous, but at other times over
the years our response to a new face has been marked with suspicion and
downright mean spiritedness. We are proud of the former and deeply
sorry for the latter.
In all of these examples from life, I keep hoping that we can learn from
our historical mistakes and benefit from the successes we have
experienced in opening the doors of our minds and hearts to others who
enter our world.
As we welcome Archbishop Dolan this summer then, it's the perfect time
to draw on all those diverse human experiences to make sure that our
initial response to his arrival will demonstrate the very best of our
Wisconsin Catholic heritage! That reception should be courteous in all
things. It should also be sincere and from the heart, because we are
certainly not a community closed to all but ourselves alone.
Every newcomer brings gifts and experiences different from our own, and
is thus capable of bringing the wider world into our narrow orbit. That
enriches everyone. After all, every single human being is an absolutely
unique masterpiece of God's creative imagination, with an irreplaceable
set of talents for a purpose known only to God. The least we can do is
offer a welcome and expect a surprise.
Over the years I've counseled parish leaders to welcome a new pastor
warmly and to see a fresh look at things as a great blessing for
everyone. New eyes, and the question, "Now tell me again why we do it
this way..." can be the occasion of countless fresh starts and renewed
beginnings. After all these years we can easily presume that Archbishop
Weakland's gifts were the only ones we need. That could be unfair to
God's generosity and to the respect we owe to every new individual who
crosses our path and blesses our common journey toward God.
So once again, Archbishop Timothy Michael Dolan, we welcome you with all
the experiences of a century and a half here in Wisconsin, and almost
two millennia of earlier practice in the art! We hope that Christ's
love in the Eucharist will set the standard for the rest of us. We hope
that you will come to like it here. The human community and our family
of faith awaits your arrival. We'll even help you unpack!
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